"Brotherhood." Did you ever think about it in this way: Bro-T-Her-Hood?
I am breaking up the word BRO-T-HER-HOOD. Breaking up the word opens thoughts in the areas of recruiting, mentoring, and retaining members. There are approximately 1,080,000 fire fighters in the United States alone. "BRO" is exactly what you might guess, with approximately 992,000 firefighters being male. "T" is separate because the "T" represents several words that can be dropped in with the breakouts that have and will continue to allow the brotherhood to flourish. "HER," like "BRO," is for the 88,800 female members of the Brotherhood (2019 NFPA). We fully utilize "Brothers" and "Sisters," but "Brotherhood" is the whole thing. "HOOD" is last, but in my time in the fire service has never seemed to come out more than now.
There are many articles, and even way more attitudes and opinions on brotherhood in the Fire Service. It is disappointing to see some of the views suggesting a dying brotherhood, but I do understand where that thought is coming from. I have been fortunate to live in a few different places in the United States, where the word and actions of the brotherhood always rises to the top. Our move to Texas really had me thinking about it a little bit differently.
I think this topic could lead to healthy conversations at the station kitchen table, apparatus bay, and or meeting room. It could help open the door to some tough but necessary discussions amongst our members. I believe that this is the greatest job in the world. Some share that view, but not always at my level of interest and enthusiasm, and that is OK. I want to take the time to learn about my fellow firefighters as we live in and pass on the brotherhood.
As you go through your career or are at a class that has firefighters from around your city, county, state, and so on, think about what they might be thinking of when you talk of the brotherhood.
Carl Wolfe
Captain / Senior Training Officer
Pearland, TX Fire Department